3) For a man who wants children in the future, but who is not willing to abstain from sex in the present, there is a third way to refuse forced fatherhood.
He must use a condom EACH AND EVERY TIME he has sex with a woman, AND ALSO sign a notarized, legal agreement with said woman, BEFORE he has sex with her, in which he relinquishes ALL OF HIS PARENTAL RIGHTS to any child he may conceive with her.
A father cannot voluntarily relinquish his parental rights, by himself, without the mother's consent.
However, if both parties, man and woman, sign the contract, agreeing that the man is legally relinquishing all parental rights to any child conceived , in the future, with said woman, said man would theoretically release himself from any obligation to pay child support for said child.
I don't know if such a contract would even hold up in court, but if said woman refuses to sign such an agreement, the man shouldn't have sex with her.
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